When you think you know how it’s bad for you,
It might lead you to the assholes and the players.
But you always have a choice to pick them decent.
You might end up being mistreated by someone u liked.
But you were worse to so many you didn’t.
The problem wasn’t not finding someone you could connect with.
It was with finding so many that you couldn’t.
You can’t just pick one to make it meaningful.
You’re ruined not by the exposure to the assholes.
It ruined you much deeper to your core.
It ruined you by turning you into one.